Shakira is ‘reborn’ in music but forgets ’emotional responsibility’: her attitude is in check

Music is his profession, but also his refuge. through his words, Shakira The 45-year-old has always spoken about his personal experiences, publicly showing how he feels. Dueling after breaking up with Gerrard Pique (35) will not be the exception. With I congratulate youAnd routine And now on her latest single from Bzrp Music Session #53, Colombian He made it clear how his heart is. “And he did it in a clever and profitable way.‘, as explained to Spanish Arantxa Perez, Digital Marketing Expert.

Shakira It is a clear example of what happens to empowered women“, the expert confirms to this newspaper. She did not use a TV or newspapers. Her channel was her work: music.

Away from giving interviews or speaking on the networks, Shakira is “making use of her craft” in songwriting with a “play on words that It shows that you have gone through different stages of grief“, Perez explains. As for Bzrp Music Session No. 53, the gradation and expectations it generates in its followers are also notorious, since they can ‘fit’ the theme at a given moment.

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“It tells about a personal experience, but many men and women who have gone through a similar experience can make it their own. That’s part of the success of the song,” says the digital marketing expert in conversation with the medium. She’s not the first to do so, and it certainly won’t be the last. Arantxa states that this formula has been used by other artists. Spite is a recurring theme in music And one way or another, all the singers talked about it in their songs.

The result, on a professional level, is very positive. “The song stays forever Which He knows that the message will reach those concerned in history. Even if they avoid it, their music plays on the radio, in bars … Now, everyone is talking about the same topic, ”says Arantxa Perez. In fact, the expert considers this is “rebirth” From the Colombian in his opinion, his name returned to focus on his identity and not for being a “bi…”, as happened for a while, while he was next to Pique.

Obviously, speaking out about her malice through music benefits her financially, too. Same for those whose songs are littered. “People sympathize now, Everything Shakira touches will turn to gold.”, starting with the brands he mentioned in his latest song, to which he gives profitability and clarity. Not surprisingly, Casio, Twingo, Rolex and Ferrari occupied the top positions in Twitter trends shortly after the song was released.

Psychologically, the debate is something else. Psychologist Marta Panizou, Director of Catarsis Psicología, commented to this newspaper that Shakira has shown the different stages of mourning through her latest songs. “in I congratulate you There was anger in routine He seemed to reach acceptance and during the session with Bizarrap Back to anger but more focused“.

“Duels are not periodic,” explains the psychologist, and it seems that with this latest single, the artist hasn’t gotten over that feeling of anger. Now, he says, Shakira offersin revenge mode‘, which is a very ‘typical’ attitude in mourning, but that ‘doesn’t help’.

Showing pain, as Shakira did, is “acceptable,” Panizou asserts. The singer “has the right to speak about reality.” however, It is important to “choose who you do it with”. The Colombian is a public figure with huge ramifications, so every action you take will get you reactions Which, according to the psychologist, will not always be the best for her. Although she is supported by a legion of fans, Shakira also has to deal with criticism from those who don’t agree with her idea.

In her analysis, Marta Panizzo also focuses on the associations that the singer makes. In the phrase “A woman no longer cries, a woman is a bill,” suggests paying special attention. “Associate empowerment with not crying is not the best option“, says the expert. In her opinion, it is not normal to deny feelings and the fact of crying is not synonymous with weakness.” Women, men and children cry,” recalls the psychologist, who also enters into the discussion about the couple’s children. Milan (9) and Sasha (7).

On a topic that has sparked thousands of comments on the networks, Panizzo coined the term “emotional responsibility“. At this point, remember that children have an age when they are aware and go to school.”That the duel affects third parties ends badlySays the psychologist, also referring to Clara Sheathe current partner of Gerard Pique.

“Shakira should hold her ex-partner responsible, but not involve third parties. He takes it into the family, while the person he has to give an account to is the footballer,” says the expert.

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